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Couple moments : do we have to share or just keep it between us ?

People were uploading their relationship moments on instagram,path, or any other social media. The biggest example you can check right now is the Glen Alinskie & Chelsea Olivia instagram feed, From their travels, their night-outs, and even their wedding are in their instagram profiles. They let it all out for the public, so their fans could see their love life.

For me a PDA is always acceptable. Sharing the love for the people around us is never a bad thing in my opinion, and it is a thousand times better then spreading the speech of hate, anger,etc.
Some couples that keeping their relationship so secret isn’t a bad idea either. Well i couldn’t give you an example but, so many celebs from hollywood or maybe korean stars who keeps their love life so secret that nobody knows that they’re living their happiest moment together without a public disturbance.

now the question is…

should you/i/we keep our relationship for ourselves,
or,
should you/i/we/ let our relationship for others to see how happy can you be in a healthy relationship ?

Let’s talk about the plus minus about these 2 options we could pick. First of all, the keep-between-us-relationship. Now let’s think about positive things we could take from a private relationships shall we ? we could pick the most simple thing from it, which is you will NOT have a pressure from other individuals, such as fans, friends, family, ex (?), etc. Other than unnecessary pressure, you could also be safe from any kind of gossip, since you didn’t let many people know that you have a special relationship, you won’t get many rumours or gossips about you two.
A bonus point if somehow it ends up in marriage, people will be in kind of a shock (?) seeing your relationship successfully go to the final phase, without any publicity from any of the social media.
Now let’s talk about the PDA in social media.

for me sharing your relationship in the social media is a brave thing to do.

Everyone who have an access to your profile will see the relationship that you shared to the internet world, Your mum, your dad, your best friend, your friends, your enemies, your dogs, your evil ex, everyone. You showed that you’re currently happy with the new person that comes into your life, That you didn’t afraid to let people know that you’re now have a new relationship you can build on.
You are not afraid of failure, why ? because if your relationship fails the probability of people who knows about your relationship will notice that your love life somehow didnt go the right way, the total opposite thing that is going to happen if you let it be a privacy between you two. And that’s why i think it was a brave thing to do.
As i was saying, sharing love to others is always a thousand times better than spreading the speech of hate. and these are just 1 or 2 bits of benefits you could have, there are so many other reasons why it’s okay to let your relationship be public or private.
For me personally, i would like to stay in the middle from these 2 options, there’s black and white, yin and yang, x and y,you and me, us. Someone said to me “Sesuatu yang dipaksakan itu tidak baik” and it will never be. So, something that is too much like someone who is posting a video about yourself crying over such a simple problems and calling it a vlog, in my opinion it was not a bright thing to do. So what i’m going to do is i’ll share what people might need to know such as, anniversary, birthday, etc and let people see that i have a happy relationship.
So i think that’s all from me, for now. I don’t know when the next post will arrive but just in case… stay tune. Ciao !

A Lot Of THINGS Happened !

YEAH

 

Hello readers, Sorry for not updating for a long time. A lot of things going on and i don’t really have the time to blog all of my things in the meantime. Actually, because of a lot of these things happened to me, i confused where to start.I have an idea that maybe i will share from my timeline. Well, here goes !

 

HMMM, Well let’s talk about keyboards shall we ? hahahaha so yeah. Recently i have a new interest about Mechanical Keyboards. Mechanical Keyboard is different than nowadays keyboard,BUT, did you know that classic keyboard is mechanical ? i just know this weeks/month ago. and i told my father that if he have a spare classic keyboard, i think i wanna use it.

2 Days later, my dad told me that he found a black keyboard and a classic ACER keyboard. He told me that this keyboard is 1 years older than me, which is made in 1993. (lol). THIS KEYBOARD IS STILL WORKING THOUGH ! you would probably won’t believe me, but yeah! it’s still working! it doesn’t have windows key that makes easier for gamers that hates windows key, lol. Check the pics, you’re gonna love it.

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Isn’t it cool ? (Yeah that’s a steelseries Mousepad)

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Comes with a power button! (It’s very rare even for expensive keyboards)

 

Later on!

 

That keyboard hype was actually happened like in last weeks, A fun journey with this beauty one,very clicky, very noisy(Some people love this though !)

Anyway! i finally have my first paycheck !!!! and then i spend it for…. this

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FUCK YES IT’S A BRAND NEW MECHANICAL KEYBOARD !

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It’s glowing like an angel, 82 Keys, 4 DIP Settings.

White Housing.

BROWN SWITCH.

Compared to the classic one, this cutie is more compact, more feathery to press.

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DID I JUST SAY GLOW ? YES I AM. IT HAVE GREEN GORGEUS LED WITH 5 BRIGHTNESS SETTINGS !

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I swear to god this is the last pic, BEAUTY ISN’T IT ??????????????????????????????

 

 

I have to honest, i actually forget what i want to blog.I Swear i have a lot in my mind about what i want to share for almost 5 days and suddenly it *poof* gone. Sorry i don’t have much to talk about. Well then, until then. my post ends here. ciao!

Back with a (lot) of curcol.

Hey ya everyone who reads my blog. ( if there’s any.) i’m back from the real life ! and hello again my dearest , newswest blog that i have never update since a long long time ago! lol anyway i’m gonna tell you a story about what’s going on with my life recently, here goes…

 

Mechanical Keyboard

Over the past months i’ve been crazily getting into CS:GO and CS:GO Community. after miraculous 17 (or 19) wins i’ve been on Silver Elite rank which is kinda high for the newbie levels. anyway i watch every pro gamer and saw their beautiful keyboard which is not a gaming keyboard, but…. a mechanical keyboard. yes, the keyboard that usually used for typing, (but recently used for pro RTS gamers like starcraft,dota,etc.). 

The keyboards are beautiful! It have modify with a bunch of alternate keycaps that makes the keyboard cuter, cooler, or which way you want the keyboard goes. Anyway, the mechanical keyboard is not very cheap so do i say as a college student, yup… The keyboard itself goes at price range from 100-200 US$ but i have a very specific keyboard that i have target on and that is… KEYCOOL 84 KEY RED LED ! The keyboard itself is very small, only 75% from a full size keyboard and it’s not very very expensive. But, the goodness from keycool makes another problem, and that is… people wants to have it too which makes the stock is very rare and the keycool factory itself has discontinued the product,so… yeah

Here’s the good news ! The newer version of keycool gonna be released soon ( i hope it’s soon enough ) so that just makes me have to be more patient than before. If you want to know how the keyboard looks like i will show it to you below. Check it out !

 

Pretty right ! OF COURSE !!! Hahahahaha well, just wish me luck i will have the best keyboard at it’s range and it’s good enough for me. Anyway i’m in the middle of mid exam, will post more if i have the mood for it, See ya later !!!!!!!!!!!!!